Something worth noticing about solo living abroad

More and more people are building independent lives abroad — and many are genuinely happy doing it.

A lot of solo agers report strong life satisfaction, freedom, autonomy, and meaningful routines. This isn’t necessarily a negative story.

But there’s another side to the conversation that doesn’t get talked about as much.

When you live internationally or outside traditional support systems, support often works differently than it used to.

It becomes more relational. More intentional.
Less built into institutions or family proximity.

And at some point, many people quietly begin asking:
Who would I call if something changed?
What actually supports my life here over time?

Not from fear.
Just from awareness.

As part of Solo Aging Visibility Day, there are a few different conversations happening next week around solo living and support.

One of them is a panel on navigating solo travel, hosted by the Navigating Solo community on Tuesday, May 12th.

I’ll also be opening a couple of small reflection spaces around support, solo living, and building sustainable lives abroad more intentionally:

– Wednesday, May 13 — Cuenca: A Conversation on Support, Solo Living and Aging Abroad
– Thursday, May 17 — (Online) Reflection Space on Support and Solo Living Abroad

I’ll be sharing a few resources and conversations over the week for anyone interested in exploring the topic from different angles.

If any of this resonates, feel free to DM me and I can share details.

Colleen

City: Cuenca  

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Ryan James
Ryan James
I would like to offer a comment and perhaps a suggestion to others. In our building, we have created a Whatsapp group for all the English speakers and have about 25 to 30 people depending on people movement in the building. Not only can we keep updated if anyone needs... Read more 1 0
Barbie Simmons
Barbie Simmons
Good for you! That's a model that works! For others who don't live in a building -- co sharing a home is an answer for some with solid economic benefits and companionship! 0 0
Kenneth Davis
Kenneth Davis
You and your housemates should attend Colleen's meeting and share your experience. 0 0
Colleen Eschenburg
Colleen Eschenburg Post Author
I really love hearing about things like this <3 thank you for sharing so openly. What you described is such a good example of how support and community often get built through small, consistent everyday connections over time. And honestly, the roses and blueberry orders somehow make it even more... 0 0
Ryan James
Ryan James
Additionally, since I have a car, I pick up things for others at Gramm Spices, Tosta Bakery, and L&S orders. I am fortunate to have such great neighbors. 0 0
Kenneth Davis
Kenneth Davis
You have an excellent setup! Expat retirees by their nature take action to mitigate risk of living abroad. They don’t wait around for guidance. You can add AI now to all messaging apps. It is a wonderful time to age with AI support along with community from meatpuppets. 0 0